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What Has Worked For Us (Brief Reflections On Enjoying 36 Years Of Marriage)
WHAT HAS WORKED FOR US
Brief Reflections On Enjoying 36 Years Of Marriage
© Lee Wise All rights reserved
For some reason or another I had a passing thought today. Iwas reflecting on our marriage and I wondered...
"What makes it work"?
We are not perfect, we don't agree on all things, and westill work through issues even after being married fornearly thirty-six years.
I didn't spend a lot of time answering my own question.
I did, however, quickly jot down a few ideas about what has"made it work" for us.
MAKE YOUR OWN APPLICATIONS
You make your own observations and applications.
Apply what I have written to your marriage, mental "Should Iever marry" list, insights on being a friend -- or"whatever."
You are creative.
After all, what is relevant in terms of this article iswhat is *most* important for you.
Your reflections are the most important reflections.
MORE COULD BE SAID
Yes, more could be said.
This was a quick list, remember?
MY OBSERVATIONS..."WHAT HAS WORKED FOR US"
We share the same core values.
We agree about "what matters most."
We pray for each other.
We *love* all that it means to be a family.
We try to heal, not hurt.
We go on dates -- often.
We work through pain together.
We give each other space.
We are lovers.
Translated, it is your turn.
Your ideas are...
Your insights are...
Your impressions are...
Your applications are...
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